Show up real. Find the one who sees you.

In the noisy world of online dating, it's easy to lose yourself — or worse, to present a polished version that hides your truth. But love built on performance never lasts.

The Real Deal of Digital Dating is a raw, clear-eyed guide for anyone who's done pretending and ready to date with depth, clarity, and self-respect.

Written by a coach, couple's therapist, and funeral speaker with a sharp eye for what matters in love and in life, this book invites you to:

✅ radically own your story — without filters or facades

✅ write a dating profile that speaks from the soul

✅ attract someone who wants all of you, not just the highlights

Through reflective prompts, practical tips, and a dose of gentle provocation, you'll walk away with more than a good profile — you'll have a deeper relationship with yourself.

This is not another swipe-strategy guide.

It's a call to honesty. To courage.

And to real connection in a digital world.



Daniela Dietz is a couples counselor and singles coach with her own practice in Frankfurt am Main. Her focus is on self-awareness, radical honesty, emotional depth, and lasting change.



She has been self-employed since 2018, after deciding she no longer wanted to spend her life wearing masks and putting on a show. In addition to her counseling work, she officiates weddings and farewells as a freelance speaker. She also preserves the life stories of "ordinary people" in written biographies and audio portraits. Her work is marked by clarity, empathy, and a fine sensitivity to the things left unspoken between the lines.



Born in 1976, Daniela is the mother of a daughter and lives with the second great love of her life – whom she, of course, met online.